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do you love you?
from katie's forum
10/04/2009
I wanted to share my experience of doing the work tonight with my 8 year old son. For weeks he's been telling me how much he hates his school and how no one (except for his teachers) likes him and how he hates everyone. I've just listened for a while and had to do the work alot on "no one likes my son" and "i'm a bad mom" and "it's all my fault"etc... Every once in a while I'd ask if he'd like to do the work and the answer for this particular situation has always been no. I learned early never to push or imply that he should. Well tonight I asked him if he'd like to question the thought that he hates school. He said yes! After working with this one we kept running up against something that would just stop him in inquiry. It was the other thought that no one likes him that kept popping up. So we moved to that thought and began to question it. He was unable to find anyone who liked him , anyone who he thought was kind to him and I thought maybe there was something else going on but couldn't see what. Suddenly out of my mouth popped," Elih, do you like you?" He just completely stopped and got very quiet. About 2 minutes later he said he didn't know. I asked him if he could find one thing he likes about himself. It took him a few minutes but he came up with one. Then I asked for another. Again silence. I asked if I could share one. Yes. So I share and then pretty soon we're going back and forth sharing what we love about him! I think we must have come up with 50 and of course we could have kept going. At the end he said,"Mom, this conversation has really helped me, I feel like I just got a new toy and now I get to find all the things I love about myself! Tommorow I'm going to start writing a book of poetry about the whole world because I'm so good at poetry". What an amazing gift to be with children! I can't even begin to express my gratitude for this work and Katie for bringing it forth.--Annie (taken from Katie's forum)
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